2 Oct
After a long contemplation, I finally decided to get ‘divorce’ and ‘re-married’.
The courting process was very quick, not more than two months. You can call me an easy woman if you want to but I was so happy when last night the best man met me to give me the ‘ring’. It was a beautiful ‘ring’. Better than I expected. Better than what my ‘husband to be’ promised me to give. So I was happily put on the ring and gave my commitment. The day to live together has been set and the scope, role and responsibility are clarified. All are looking good so far.
Now come the difficult part. Getting a ‘divorce’ from my current ’spouse’. I picked my time carefully. Fortunately few hours before I committed my self, my current ’spouse’ showed me what he planned me to do. He did not know that I would not be there by that time to fulfil my committment. Hence, I told him the truth. Although I have fallen out of love, he is my ’spouse’ after all. To him I committed my self for the past 9 years and 5 months. He deserved a little respect called honesty. So I opened my self. I truthfully said that I wanted to end this ‘marriage’ and in the process of marrying somebody else. This marriage did not work for me. Fortunately he has been very understanding. He said a lot of nice things but I have lost my trust. I didn’t really care whether what he said was truth or not. I simply didn’t care. I want to move on with my life. With my new ’spouse’ and my new life. I hope everything will be better.
6 Responses for "Divorce & Re-Married"
Life goes on….
Mama masi bisa kok pinjem baju pink papa heheheeee halah!
… but I have lost my trust
You didn’t mentioned earlier, what cause that make you to come to this decision… In human relatioinship, it’s all about trust, nothing else.
Hush M…ntar dikirain kita yang cerai lagi.
Eri, read my previous posts. The sign is all there hidden between sentences.
Welcome to cubicroom.
may the force be with you….
congratulations for the new ‘marriage’. it takes a lot of guts to leave a ‘relationship’ of 9+ years…. kudos to you! hopefully, this new spouse will give you more money, more “me” (read: family) time and more, ehm, satisfaction
Thank you Thalia…my new ’spouse’ will sure will provide challenge…but hey, what is the meaning of life other than taking up challenge at its fullest?
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